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Cherie Lee

Cracked Humanity

October 10, 2016 by Cherie Lee in Christian Spirituality

We’re sitting in a huge barn, an open kitchen to one side and a coffee service area to the other.

Running down the middle of the barn are three long, sturdy tables. Over to one of the walls, there’s a smattering of white handprints, reaching over each other to form a mountain.

My pastor stands in front of the group with a guitar.

We’re singing “Amazing Grace.” The group is 40% Iranian refugees, 40% reformed prisoners and 20% reformed-conservative-North-Shore-Christians (that’s my category, anyway).

Minutes earlier, we’d been sitting outside on picnic tables, eating fresh pineapple and watermelon, overlooking the 360 degree greenness of fields and flowers and vegetable patches and horses.

A baby sits on the ground watching a dog who’s watching a chicken.

The farm is a community organization, a place where the reformed prisoners come to learn how to farm, build furniture from recycled timber, rehabilitate race-horses at the end of their careers, as well as enjoy community with each other.

I’m sitting in this service, reflecting on a handful of frustrations in my personal life. Replaying conversations, events. Work run-ins. Sydney traffic.

Amazing grace, how sweet the sound / that saved a wretch like me.

One of the guys who had been in prison gets up and tells that after praying every day, he had seen his two sons for the first time in three years the day before.

My chains are gone, I’ve been set free.

That morning I had read a meditation by Richard… [Read more…] about Cracked Humanity

Why I Stopped Reading Self-Help Books

June 3, 2016 by Cherie Lee in Christian Spirituality

In the most Freudian tradition, it began with my Dad.

The Dad who was absent?

No.

The Dad who was reckless?

No.

He’s not that kind of Dad.

The Dad who for Christmas, wanted not the latest James Patterson thriller, but a hefty computer programming manual for his leisurely reading?

Yes. That’s the one.

The Dad whose work centers on graphs and data and code and numbers and other terrifying things?

Yes. This is about that Dad.

I’m sure that some of his analytic tendencies snuck into my DNA.

The benefits? A boundless sense of optimism in my ability to solve computer-related problems.

Firewall? Yep, I got it. VPN? Bandwidth? Defrag? HTML? I’m all over it.

The drawbacks? A boundless sense of optimism in my ability to solve every other part of my life.

Traditionally I would crowd-source answers. If you ask everyone you know the same question, there’s got to be a median response!

Then, along came Google.

That glorious oracle.

Mecca of all the answers.

What’s your quandary? Emotional, relational, spiritual, medical?

Google: is it normal to have one dark black hair on your arm that keeps coming back when the rest of the hairs are kind of blonde-ish?

Yes. Probably normal. Maybe skin cancer. But probably normal.

I would surreptitiously type questions under the table during a dinner date: Google: he didn’t hold the door open for me, is that a deal breaker?

It turns out that Kelly from Illinois had a strong… [Read more…] about Why I Stopped Reading Self-Help Books

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