Growing up with a single mother, I learned that being a woman and being strong go hand in hand.
Growing up in the Pentecostal church, I learned that the Holy Spirit gave the power to everyone, male or female, to preach the Gospel, live a Christ-like life, and do fantastic works that would bring people to Jesus.
In two formative ways, I learned that to be a woman is not in and of itself a hindrance to accomplishment. Being a woman, in both contexts, is something to be celebrated. Together, my mother and the Spirit emboldened me to do anything God put in my heart to do.
So of course I asked if the Spirit was calling my beloved, empowered self to be a leader in the church, maybe even a pastor.
Then things got weird.
My mom told me there was no question: of course I could be a pastor if that was what I really wanted to do.
The church of my youth and evangelical groups I joined, however, told me there were limits to this empowerment, especially for girls. Perhaps the Spirit might have given me the gifts of teaching, but only to teach children, youth, and other women.
But to teach everyone, including (and especially) men? You heard God wrong on that, they said. Maybe instead of being a pastor, you’re called to be a pastor’s wife.
I balked quite a bit at that idea.
So I found myself confused. And as a result, I asked more questions.
I asked, “Why would the Spirit awaken such gifts within me only to put odd limits on them for the sole fact that I am female, not male?”
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